"As our wedding day draws near, we hope our sentiment is clear. We need you there as we are wed, to witness our love as vows are said.

But as for gifts, please don't try to find the ideal thing to buy. We have no lists of pots and pans, just hopes and dreams and honeymoon plans. So if a gift is on your mind, a contribution would be kind. It would help us more than words can say, to celebrate our special day."