As we have both lived by ourselves for some time, we have two flats’ worth of possessions to consolidate (including arguing about whose sofa we’re keeping!), so we have decided not to make a traditional wedding list of household goods, particularly since we’re not sure where they would fit! If you feel you would like to make us a wedding present, you can gift us some wonderful memories by choosing to contribute to one of the experiences we will be having on our honeymoon to Japan. Alternatively, feel free to make a donation to one of our favourite charities: Child's Play, Alzheimers Society or Endometriosis UK. Please don’t feel you have to do either of these though; we’re just looking forward to celebrating our wedding with you.

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