We are so thankful that you can share our special day with us. We understand that travel, accommodation etc don't come for free, and the genuinely best gift you can give us is to come and celebrate with us as we begin our life together. Our wedding is our gift to you with nothing expected in return.

If you are able and would like to give us a gift, we've set up a wedding fund to which you can contribute. One of our goals as a couple is to live less materially and more sustainably, and we're very lucky to already have a home full of everything we need.

We're planning on splitting the fund two ways:

- one half to help us have an amazing belated honeymoon where we can explore our incredible world together;

- the other half to support some amazing charities that are close to our hearts.

In particular, we'll be allocating funds between:

- Somerset and Avon Rape and Sexual Abuse Support (www.sarsas.org.uk), a specialist support service for people who have experienced sexual violence;

- Suicide Prevention Bristol (www.cspbristol.co.uk), a group of volunteers 'on the ground' patrolling and identifying people at risk to offer crisis intervention;

- Off the Record (www.otrbristol.org.uk), a local charity providing mental health education and intervention to young people.

You can donate via this site, which will make a small deduction to cover their administration costs, or if you would prefer to make a direct (and fee-free) bank transfer instead then please ask for our account details.

If you are a UK taxpayer and want to use Gift Aid for a donation in our name, you can do this for SARSAS and Off the Record through their websites.

Thanks for visiting and we can't wait to see you on our big day!