Preparing to get married once you are engagedThis entry is from our Expert Guest series where wedding and honeymoon professionals share their best tips on creating memories that last a lifetime.

You are officially engaged and undoubtedly glowing with excitement, congrats! You’ll be full of love and optimism, and it’s the perfect time to put that positive energy into organising your big day. But where to start? Is it the venue? Or should you choose your dress first and coordinate everything with the style you decide on? There will be many questions on your mind, and to take the stress out of an otherwise extremely enjoyable chapter of your life, here is a step by step guide of how to plan your special day.

The Blissful Engagement

Enjoy your engagement then plan your wedding

In this phase, you will be so elated and fuzzy that it will be hard to sit back and relax into being engaged; you will naturally want to start planning. It is important to remember though, that your partner has just spent a long time getting ready to propose, saving for the ring, and working out the best away to pop the question. So, before you jump straight in with your Pinterest board and list of venues, give your partner a little space to breathe.  If you are itching to get started, this is the perfect time to think about the guest list, your wedding party, and of course your bridesmaids and best men.

Starting To Plan

Get your wedding planning on track

Once you have relished being engaged and cannot contain your excitement any further, it is time to get stuck into the primary stages of arranging your wedding. The first thing to do is to set the date, after you ask yourself whether you want a winter wedding, a summer one, or perhaps one in spring with all the gorgeous flowers. When deciding, keep in mind what day of the week it will be and where the week is falling. Weekday weddings are usually more affordable, for example, and bank holiday weekends are often in high demand. This is also the time to set your budget for the wedding as it will dictate many aspects of your next stages.

To Party Or Not To Party

Should you plan an engagement party

Being engaged is a huge deal, and your nearest and dearest will be so excited for you. So, when you have got a date and budget in place, it is time to think about whether you want to throw an engagement party to celebrate with everyone. If you have finished allocating all your wedding finances and have some leftover that you can use to host a party, it is a really lovely opportunity to share the news. It doesn’t have to be a big affair, you can have an intimate dinner for under 20 people at your house if you have the space, or you could hire a venue if your budget is more accommodating to a larger event.

Finding A Picture-Perfect Venue

Choose your wedding venue

The next step in your wedding planning adventure is choosing the ideal venue. Although you are most likely dying to find your dress, it is best to settle on where you are holding your wedding first as it may inform the style. Do in-depth research of each venue and see all possibilities in person before making any selections. If you have decided on an area, make a list of possibilities and their open days in the vicinity and try to hit a few in one go. You could do an exciting tour of wedding venues in Kent for example. Make sure to check their availability for your selected date, whether it is convenient for your families to get to, and whether there is accommodation nearby if required.

Now For The Dress

Find a wedding dress with great top detail

Having picked your venue, the time has finally come for the incredibly exciting task of finding your perfect dress. The first thing to do is to determine which silhouette is best for you and then think about the details, as opting for a style that suits you is the difference between a good dress and a great one. The next aspect you need to focus on, even if all you can think of is the princess skirt, is the top of your dress as this is the area that your guests and the camera will focus on. Once you have made your mind up, plan in time for any alterations, and if you are intending to buy a custom-made dress, remember that these can take up to six months before they are ready to wear.

Choosing Your Flavour

Choose your wedding menu

The next stop on your wedding organizing venture is to find and book your caterers if they aren’t already included within your venue package. Your first and most exciting decision is what style of cuisine you want. Does your dream wedding involve canapes with high-class glamour from luxury wedding caterers? Or are you after a more rustic, homely feel with food trucks or finger food stations? When you have what you want in mind, it is time to start researching providers. Before you decide on your final one, make sure your potential choices have availability for your chosen date as this is an easy way to narrow down the shortlist.

Sharing The Love

Planning your guest list

Now that you have the essentials in place, you can work on your invite and gift list. Your wedding invites will ideally match the theme of your special day and let people know what to expect. For example, if you are planning a festival wedding, lanyards with printed wedding ‘line-ups’ would be a wonderful way to set the mood. This is also the perfect opportunity to decide on what to ask from your family and friends in terms of a wedding wish-list. This can be a little daunting as many people these days have everything they need at home. Yet, you needn’t worry about awkwardly asking for money, as sites like Honeyfund give you the option of simply sending a link to the goal you are saving for and your guests can feel comfortable gifting what they can.

Selecting Flowers and Favours

Selecting your wedding flowers & favors

Flowers are said to make a room smile and that is true of weddings too! Before getting carried away designing lavish spreads layered with symbolism, set your budget, and find a florist to work with. For a more affordable service, look for an up and coming florist rather than somewhere already well established. They will be happy to work with you to expand their portfolio and are more likely to be flexible to your needs. A good florist may also be able to help you with your table spreads and tying in your choice of favours to the overall design. Have a look here for some gorgeous and unique favours ideas that your guests will be happy to take home.

These are the initial stages of wedding planning and they are so exciting and enjoyable, you’ll have an amazing time shaping your big day. Keep a look at for How To Make Your Dream Wedding A Reality – Part Two, which covers everything from bridesmaids dresses to writing vows and everything in-between. Let me know if there’s anything you have done differently or other tips in the comments.

Bio: Help! I’m Getting Married is a blog by Nat, a twenty-something blogger living in Brighton, UK. who set up a blog a few years ago when he was engaged to be married as a resource to help women in a similar situations. He covers everything from venue and food to photographers and dresses.

After being married almost four years and learned that life certainly doesn’t end at marriage, he encountered so much during the first two years of marriage that he made the decision to change the focus of his blog from just weddings to a variety of lifestyle topics. He wanted to convey the message that life goes on after your happily ever after, and that the journey has been just as exciting as the wedding.

You’ll find a bit of everything on Help! I’m Getting Married; along with the regular wedding articles, there’s also plenty to read on fashion, beauty, family, travel, lifestyle, culture, food, and much more. Nat’s work appears around the internet, and he’s currently a certified Mumsnet Blogger and a Miss Millennia Magazine contributor.

Twitter: @martinnathalie9

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Conisder teh advantages of getting married on SundayThis entry is from our Expert Guest series where wedding and honeymoon professionals share their best tips on creating memories that last a lifetime.

Is a Sunday wedding for you? Typically, when couples begin their venue search they are planning for a Saturday wedding. It’s convenient, traditional and what most wedding guests are accustomed to.

However, sometimes you may fall in love with a venue that doesn’t have a Saturday available or the venue is just over your budget. In some cases, Sunday may be all that your venue has available in your dream wedding month.

That leaves you deciding whether or not a Sunday wedding can work for you and your loved one. When tackling this decision, here are some things we’d recommend considering. There are a lot of benefits and challenges to think about, and while some Sunday wedding details may pose a challenge to you, other couples may find them to be a benefit!

Overall, your decision should be based on what is best for you and your partner. Just remember- it’s YOUR big day so despite the opinions of friends and family, if Sunday is best for you, choose Sunday!

Enjoy the benefits of a Sunday wedding

Why Choose a Sunday Wedding

The Discount

Often, even during peak season, venues offer a 10% discount on their packages for both Friday and Sunday weddings.

  • If you are having a 175 person wedding, this adds up!
  • With a per plate cost of $150 for your 175 person wedding, you save $2,625 in price and that is just on your venue.
  • Some venues may even throw in incentives in order for you to book a Sunday. Maybe a raw bar for your cocktail hour or an extra dessert will be added to your package free of charge!
  • Other vendors may offer discounts as well- an extra $2,000 can get you that photo booth you’ve been wanting plus more!

 Your Guests’ Schedules

If you have a lot of guests who are traveling in for your wedding, you may want to consider how it will affect their plans.

  • Some guests may consider a Sunday wedding challenging because they need to be at work Monday morning. However, others may be very excited to take a Monday off from work!
  • Your close friends and family do not have to rush out of work on Friday to make a rehearsal dinner if you hold it on Saturday instead.
  • If you are having your wedding in any kind of destination spot, like a beach area, traveling in on a Sunday puts traffic going in the opposite direction of your guests.
  • Some people view Sunday as a time to spend with their significant others and children and may not want to attend a wedding because of this.

Make your wedding weekend one long partyOne Long Party

Having a Sunday wedding allows you to start the festivities on Saturday, giving you two full days to celebrate.

  • While your rehearsal dinner may only be for close friends and family, you may want to add a day time activity for guests to participate in during the day.
  • After your rehearsal, you can invite a larger group out for welcome drinks
  • Often Sunday weddings start a little earlier in the day, allowing you to continue your wedding into an after party with a more manageable time.
  • Given that many people are returning to work on Monday, you likely wouldn’t have many people attending a post wedding brunch.

A Casual Affair

A Sunday wedding tends to be viewed as a little more casual and often occurs earlier in the day- as a late lunch or even brunch affair.

  • If you are looking for something a little more casual, a Sunday wedding can allow for that more relaxed less formal feeling.
  • Guests who have to go to work on Monday might be a little more reserved with their drinking, leading to a less energetic atmosphere.

Planning for a Sunday wedding

Timing Things Out

It’s important to put some thought behind how your day’s schedule would look with a Sunday wedding in place.

  • If your venue has a Saturday wedding, you may need to have your actual rehearsal on Friday or right before your actual ceremony.
  • Depending on the venue, if a wedding took place on Saturday night, you and your wedding party may not be able to get into the venue until a little later in the day
  • An earlier start to your wedding means an earlier start to your day. If you are thinking about doing a first look, you and your wedding party better be morning people!
  • Appointments for things like hair and makeup may have more availability on a Sunday than Friday or Saturday

In the end after you and your fiancé weight the pros and cons, decide if a Sunday wedding is right for you! No matter what day it is your friends and family will be excited to share in such a special moment and memory alongside you.

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Bio: Shore to Please Wedding & Event Planning is an affordable, full-service wedding and event planning company based at the Jersey Shore. STP specializes in providing couples with assistance months in advance up to the very last minute! The goal is to minimize the work and stress for couples, allowing them to focus on the things that really matter and enjoy the time they have at their wedding, party or event! Jen & Kelly have been best friends for over 20 years and love that they get to help so many couples have the wedding of their dreams.

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